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April - Alan Fiske
UCLA Anthropology
Socio-Moral Emotions Provide the Self-Control Necessary to Sustain Social
Relationships
This talk describes a proxy theory of emotions as motivational representations
of the expected value of relationships and relational strategies.
Social relationships are crucial for human well-being and evolutionary fitness,
and are essential constituents of societal structure. But relationships
require effective self-control, because people repeatedly face tempting
opportunities to defect, cheat, or shirk. Self-interested motives-including
powerful drives for food, sex, aggression, and pain avoidance-constantly
jeopardize relationships. To sustain long-term relationships, people must
consistently overcome the lure of tantalizing temptations, forego immediate
pleasures, and endure current hardships. Learning from personal experience
is impractical where the penalties for transgression may be devastating.
Because of numerous biases whose effect is to reduce estimates of the likelihood
of detection and punishment, human reasoning is deficient, and judgments
of preferences are temporally inconsistent. Consequently, even the
most intelligent dispassionate cognizers are excessively attracted by present
opportunities and erroneously discount future social benefits and sanctions.
As a result, dispassionate cognizers-such as psychopaths-cannot sustain
functional, reliable relationships. To sustain essential relationships,
people must experience culturally mediated social emotions as guides for
present action. Social emotions are proximate motivations to endure the privations,
sustain the arduous efforts, and exert the self-control necessary for effective
participation in social relationships. Human emotional proclivities
are culturally mediated adaptations, requiring socially transmitted complements
that shape emotions to fit local implementations of universal relational
forms. This is why people experience-and need to experience-relational emotions
such as love, devotion, awe, honor-pride, anger, loneliness, shame, guilt,
pollution disgust, jealousy, and fears of witchcraft, sorcery, and supernatural
sanctions. Emotions are proxies representing the expected long-term value
of social relationships, safeguarding people from succumbing to temptations
that jeopardize the relationships they need.